Our journey: Rainy day Parelli

Friday, February 12, 2010

Rainy day Parelli

Because of the miserable weather and time constraints, I have not set aside play sessions with the girls. I do however enjoy using my new-found philosophies in everyday handling. Dancer especially needs me to be a leader. She has so little confidence and is desperate for someone to show her that humans won't kill her! At feeding time I have been doing lots of undemanding time, petting, rubbing, grooming the spots she likes.

I've been boarded up in the house or library the last few days, but I have managed to sneak in lots of Parelli TV shows or Level 1 DVDs.

I've come to realize that I am naturally a great leader, but I am such a predator! I am hoping to cleanse my thinking of all predatory responses that have been beat into me from traditional training. I see myself getting more and more patient and calm around the horses, even nervous-ninny Dancer.

I had a second opinion on Satin's radiographs from a DVM radiologist specialist. He says that nothing jumps out at him and that the quality of the x-rays could be better. So I am hoping that that means it's something more minor like a bruise that is still healing. She's been on bute for 20 days. I took her off 3 days ago and she seems in relatively decent condition. Her limping is less dramatic.
Once this rain stops I will take her out and see how she's feeling!

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Satin, 1997 Snowflake Appaloosa mare

Satin, my best friend. Her stall name plate (well, one of her stall plates) says it all, "Satin, Mommy's Brat"
She's been with me since she was weaned (too early) as a 4 month-old. I was barely 14 and desperately wanted my very own horse. My family was not horse savvy, although I did get my mom into riding when I started taking lessons as a girl. I dragged my parents across Sarasota, Florida, classifieds in hand, trying to find a horse for me. I still remember the ad catching my attention for two reasons - "filly" and "$500". She was cheap and she was a baby! I had no idea what I was getting into. Never had any experience with foals (I was 14!) and had no experience with any sort of training. I taught her how to halter, tie, load, clip, lunge, started her under saddle, dressage, eventing.. you name it, Satin and I did it on our own. She has taught me how horses talk and how important it is to speak in a way they can understand. Here we are in 2010, starting our new journey to an even better friendship!

Dancer, 1996 Chestnut TB rescue

When I describe Dancer to anyone, the first thing I say about her is "She has such a big heart." She is so loving towards other horses and my hope is that this Parelli journey will allow her to love humans just as well.
Dancer was considered trash to the TB breeding industry. She had 4 foals, then didn't take one year, then didn't take another year. So they gave her away. She was useless to them, so they tossed her out. Someone with no experience picked her up. They held on to her for a short time before realizing that 'owning' a horse is expensive and hard work! So they offered her up for "free" in the classifieds. This was before US slaughterhouses has been shut down. She was picked up by a kill buyer and brought to their transport facility. Fate was shining down on Dancer when she was bought back from the owner who's friends told her the whole deal was odd. She had given Dancer away for free but the buyer made her pay money to take her back. She picked her up the day she was to be shipped to slaughter.
That's when I met Dancer! Abandoned at a boarding facility, nervous of humans but totally a doll to other horses. I knew she needed some love.